Tuesday, April 28, 2009

In the month of April

Ok so time for an update... Warning its a long one!

Life in General
Life is insanely busy right now Ray is finishing up his 19 credit hour semester and can't wait to be done... I'm not gonna lie I can't wait either I want my husband back! He has done AWESOME at keeping on top of everything and working at the same time. He is still at UPS and cut his finger about 3 weeks ago 10 stictches later and one night every week where they send him home because it is still no healed and he just keeps going lika a mad man. I am not gonna lie he is AMAZING I am so blessed to have married someone who works so hard and is doing all he can to provide for our family in the future. Me same job, walking every night, Young Womens, wife, housekeeper and soon to be mom and my baby bump is getting bigger every day.

Life with Family
We went home for Easter and had Gram and Gramp Nessens yearly Easter fest with the fam it was super fun and the weather was perfect enough to enjoy time together for a while. Rays fam came a few weeks ago he went Golfing and Snowboarding in the same day with his brothers Tyrel and Keslin. Me, Elena, and Rays Mom went shopping and to Cafe Rio it was a blast! We also shared in the joy of Costco Muffins with Rays Mom she had never had them and LOVES them now. Who doesn't Love Costco. Then last weekend we went home again for Family Pics check them out on Ashs blog LOVE AMANDA she's the best! We had so much fun staying with Ash and seeing the fam LOVE THEM! My Siblings and their spouces I would DIE without them I have the BEST SISTER and BROTHERS in the WORLD!




Life with Church
I went to a fireside a few weeks ago with the youth it was SOOO GOOOD!! The speaker talked about media and how attached we are and how advanced the world has become because of it... he was talking to our youth about when he was a youth (so were we) that the internet was brand new... Ipods were unheard of and cell phones were for emergencies. All of the youth were shocked.... that we ever lived without the technology that they have today and it has not been that long at all... anyway the whole point of his lesson was to be careful about how much time we spend surfing the net or becoming dependant on the internet. He mentioned specifically Facebook.... I seriously am ADDICTED to facebook I LOVE IT!! And I LOVE BLOGS it is a way to help me catch up on everyones lives and stay connected I think it is AWESOME! But I also feel that I spend a little too much of the time given to me on things that will always be there and not enough doing what will bring me closer to my Heavenly Father and Savior Jesus Christ. Sometimes I get so distracted by all the things of the world that I forget the real reason we are here. Which the speaker said could be summed up in 4 words he said our whole purpose here is "To Become Like God" It is true so I am trying to spend a lot less time on Facebook and blogging not that I blog that much anyway but I do LOVE following up on others blogs! I just need to refocus my efforts on being better and doing things that will make a difference in the lives of others. Anyway personal commitment to spend a little less time on the computer and a little more time basking in the beauty of spring and blessing the lives of others.

Life with Friends

Ray and I both feel so blessed to have such GREAT friends! We are so lucky to have great couples to spend our time with that we can laugh with and play with and just be us with no reservations. I went out with some of my girlfriends for Dinner and we had a BLAST!!! We laughed for 2 hours and talked about live and marriage and kids and birthdays and everything you can think of I LOVE THOSE GIRLS (you know who you are)I haven't laughed so hard in I can't remember the last time. We also went to Red Robin a few weeks ago with Shelley and JL they were in AZ forever it seemed and WE LOVE THEM had a great time! On the way out the door we bumped into our friend Anna who I have not seen in way too long she is AMAZING, GEORGOUS, and TALENTED all in one little body! It was so good to see her whoever gets her will be so lucky she is a real catch! Also our darling friend Niki just bought a house and we helped her move in she is AMAZING just graduated from nursing school and always a ray of sunshine she gives and gives and gives completely unselfish! (also real catch for anyone who gets her!) I wish we could talk about all of our freinds we love so much but it would make this post even longer! So Ray and I discussed how blessed we are to live here and be surrounded by people we love! It will be hard to leave when the time comes because of people we love so much! WE LOVE YOU shout out to all of our friends thanks for being so GREAT! last but not least...


Life with a Baby Bump
We had another ultrasound Tuesday April 28th (we're lucky he wouldn't turn the first time so we got to see him again) He is getting SO BIG I swear every day my tummy grows an inch! He weighed in at 1lb 4oz and is growing like a weed! We are getting so excitied to meet him and I've graduated from chubby bump to baby bump :) Most people can now tell that I am not just chubby but preggy!


This was at Family Pics just a week ago and he is already bigger now :)
For more fam pics check out Ashs blog

Just a side note I have tried to post this 3 times and blogger hasn't let me so we are now almost 24 weeks and he is kicking like crazy. Ray felt him for the first time last night it was AWESOME!!

That is April in a nutshell till next time thanks for reading sorry it so long and thanks for blessing our lives WE LOVE YOU!!

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

IT'S A BOY

So we went to the Doctor this morning and WE'RE HAVING A BOY!! Its for sure! I am still getting used to the idea but I am so excited he is happee and healthy and so active he loves to play with his feet! We are so excited for this next step in our lifes! And so greatful for the Miracle this is! We love him!! And are excited to have him be in our family!
We went and bought him his first going home outfit it is TINY!! Ray picked it out its Darling!

Rays 'Little All Star" He is so excited to have a little hunting buddy and will be a GREAT DADDY!


Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Giggeling, Tears and Gender

Ok so this is now a very humorous story that I should share...
So on Sunday we were invited to dinner with some of our really good friends Stefani and Gavin (LOVE THEM) We had dinner at Stefanis parents house and after dinner we sat around talking and laughing and just enjoying our time together. They dropped us off at home a little after 9 and when we walked in the door Ray being funny thought he would start a tickle war... I am usually really good at fighting back... however for some reason I just couldn't defend myself very well he had me pinned... so he was tickeling me so much I couldn't breath we were laughing then I broke free and told him please stop... well he continued and I couldn't even get the breath to tell him really stop. So he stopped seeing I couldn't breath and it was now torturing me ha ha so when I caught my breath I began to sob... all out balling I was like "You shouldn't tick.... (breath)tickle(breath) people till they can't breath... wahhh wahhhh... It's not funny!" I for one couldn't believe I was crying but Ray just stared at me like "are you for real" Then after a few minutes I came to my senses and got a grip on reality... aparently tickeling a pregnant woman is not a good idea. My emotions are ALL OVER THE PLACE! I mean I knew it but this was way over the top ha ha I think it is hilarious now!

OK SO....
Only 7 more days and we find out what our baby is YAY!!! I am so excited and a little
nervous at the same time! I can't believe first of all that we are having a baby until
A)I just ate and 3 hours later am hungry again
B) My Belly and everything on my body is exspanding
C) Constant Headaches... and Balling (just an example above)
however it is nice to have it reaffirmend every time we go to the doctor we get to hear its heartbeat and it all becomes real again... :)
Truth be told we are hoping for a little girl only to see if the King boys are capable of having girls
7 Brothers and 2 Nephews later :) But honestly I know we are so blessed to even have this little baby come into our family so We are just hoping for a healthy happee baby! You can vote on what you think we might have so far Girl is taking it by a landslide so we will see who's right :)
As for baby bump pictures we have taken a few but I'll have to wait to post better ones when you can tell it is a baby bump and not a chubby bump :)

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Updates


McKenna and Tasian coloring in the new books from Uncle
Kirk he is such a GREAT Uncle! They stopped on their way
to California for dinner :) Love these kids!



Me and Ray on Valentines day! We fogot our camera so this
was an after thought... we went to the U basketball game with
the Hartleys THANK YOU for the tickets! Then we went to
Red Iguana with a big ol group then we played games at Aunt Tams
it was a blast!


This is not a close up... if you zoom you will see the
Baby bump ha ha we went to the Temple with my Fam
and out to dinner... just for a fun day together it is awesome
to be in the temple together with people you love so much!


Uncle Kirk came to dinner last Saturday 3/7
He brought the kids coloring books and we had the
best time! We are so Blessed to have such great familys!
I look like trash I had the worst headache all day so I didn't
do much with myself and they love me just the same!
That is what we've been up to! Ray turns 27 Tomorrow YAY!! He is freaking out and I am not far behind him... We want to stay in our 20's its a great time of life... no wonder why people always say they are 29 when they are well into their40's. More pics of the birthday to come :)



Friday, February 6, 2009

Our Miracle!

Our greatest heartache has become our GREATEST MIRACLE!!! We're having a BABY!!
So on Christmas Eve I thought we might be pregnant due to being late and lots of other insane things you mothers know about... so we had agreed that we would take the test Christmas morning but when Ray went to get gas before we left.. I took the test I couldn't wait any longer... and it was POSITIVE YAY!!!! So I kept it a secret ALL NIGHT thanks to a great deal of help from Ashleigh! Then on Christmas morning when he opened his stocking he recieved the greatest gift ever!

The Lord needed us to rely on him and to remember he sees the bigger picture and for that we are so grateful! We had our first Dr. Appt yesterday and got to see our little gummy bear it was Unbelievable Ray was crying and I am freaking out... AHHH but we are SOOO blessed and are so grateful for this Miracle that Heavenly Father has given to us. We are 11 weeks now and due August 29th Yay for the Hot Hot summer!!

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Procrastination

Ok I don't ever have many stories to tell but this one is for the records...
Ray and I have been married for 1 Year and 8 Months... WE JUST ORDERED OUR WEDDING PICTURES YESTERDAY AHHHHH!!!! I am not gonna lie I've thought about it nearly everyday but it is so late when he gets home or we are always gone doing something else that we the SLACKERS have just ordered them now ha ha. They have all been paid for so I am sure our photographer has not even cared if we do order them but we finally did it YAY!!
Now you know how big of a procrastinator I am!!

Thursday, January 29, 2009

100 Things

100 things
I was tagged by Nurse Niki to pick the things I've done on the list.
I tag Ashleigh, Tia, Amy, and Natalie
The things I have done are in Red:
1. Started my own blog
2. Slept under the stars
3. Played in a band (Rock Band!)
4. Visited Hawaii
5. Watched a meteor shower (thanks to Ray)
6. Given more than I can afford to charity
7. Been to Disneyland/world
8. Climbed a mountain--Mt Timpanogus all 9 miles one way... and King Mtn hardest hike of my life!!
9. Make out with 5 different people in one night
10. Sung a solo
11. Bungee jumped
12. Visited Paris
13. Watched lightening at sea
14. Taught myself art from scratch (does scrapbooking count?)
15. Adopted a child
16. Had food poisoning
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty
18. Grown my own vegetables
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France
20. Slept on an overnight train
21. Had a pillow fight
22. Hitchiked (Ashleigh was coming to pick me up but I still stuck out my thumb ha ha)
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill -- Who hasen't??
24. Built a snow fort
25. Held a lamb
26. Gone swimming at night
27. Run a Marathon
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice
29. Seen a total eclipse
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset (everyday in Hawaii BEAUTIFUL!!)
31. Hit a home run
32. Been on a cruise (been on 2 CAN'T WAIT to go again!!)
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
34. Visited the birthplace of my ancestors
35. Seen an Amish community
36. Taught myself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
39. Gone rock climbing (on our cruise HATED it!)
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David
41. Sung karaoke-- thank you Rock Band ha ha
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant
44. Visited Africa
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight
46. Been transported in an ambulance
47. Had my portrait painted
48. Gone deep sea fishing
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Been in a movie
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Visited Russia
60. Served at a soup kitchen
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies (No but I love to eat them!)
62. Gone whale watching
63. Got flowers for no reason
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
65. Gone sky diving
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
67. Bounced a check
68. Flown in a helicopter
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy (for a while but not anymore)
70. Visited the Lincoln Memoriall
71. Eaten Caviar
72. Pieced a quilt
73. Stood in Times Square
74. Toured the Everglades
75. Been fired from a job
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
77. Broken a bone-- just my finger oh and a toe OWIE
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
80. Published a book
81. Visited the Vatican
82. Bought a brand new car
83. Walked in Jerusalem
84. Had my picture in the newspaper
85. Read the entire Bible
86. Visited the White House-- stood outside the gates
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
88. Had chickenpox
89. Saved someone’s life
90. Sat on a jury
91. Met someone famous-- a girl from ER once at Sea World
92. Joined a book club
93. Lost a loved one
94. Had a baby
95. Seen the Alamo in person
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
97. Been involved in a law suit
98. Owned a cell phone-- who hasen't?
99. Been stung by a bee
100. Rode an elephant